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Wednesday, July 30, 2014


Details.... part one.

We did not arrive at the decision to adopt easily, quickly, or
without much thought, soul-searching and prayer.

We became aware of  "Janie" through Reece's Rainbow (RR),
an advocacy site for special needs orphans around the world. http://reecesrainbow.org/.

It was close to Christmas and RR was trying to help raise awareness for these special children.  RR created a grant fund on "Janie's" page to help cover some of the expenses of adoption, which would hopefully help her adopting family more readily commit to moving forward.  We donated to "Janie's" fund, with the hope that a family would come forward.  And take her home.  And give her love.  And make her their own daughter.

No one came forward.

A few months passed.  
I walked to the mailbox one January afternoon and there was a package.  

(this is our Annabelle looking at the snow we got one January day)

A Christmas ornament.  
A picture of "Janie" on the ornament.  
This darling baby.

 Still  precious.
 Still waiting.

Christmas was over,
but in my hand was a little reminder
that this sweet baby did not have a family.  
Her second Christmas had come and gone...
without a mama.

Yet... what could I do?

“If anyone, then, knows the good they ought to do and doesn't do it, it is sin for them.” James 4:17




Sunday, July 27, 2014


Piles of papers.  
Stacks of information. 
 Finances.  The stability of our marriage. How we parent.  
Our children's ages, likes, dislikes, weaknesses, strengths.  
Why adoption.  Why special needs.  When do we go. 
How much longer.  How much more money is needed.


QUESTIONS

So many!
I have been writing non-stop since mid-June!  
The adoption application required short biographies on EVERYONE. 
 That's seven people. 
 Plus I had to highlight how Matt and I met, 
why we liked each other then 
and how we still like each other now.

Pictured ABOVE are a *few* of the grant applications I am working on.  
So far, we have completed and sent in 3.  

I felt much better after I organized a bit.  Folders help. Labels, even better.  
Not the fanciest set-up for sure, but it works for me. 
Easy. Simple. Done. 


All the writing forces one to be reflective, 
to truly evaluate why we are doing what we are doing.


Honestly, there is not one ounce of doubt. 

"He has saved us and called us to a holy life--not because of anything we have done but because of his own purpose and grace. This grace was given us in Christ Jesus before the beginning of time..."
 2 Timothy 1:9


Monday, July 21, 2014

So this is AJ...



AJ is smart.
AJ loves.
AJ is witty.
AJ has overcome open heart surgery.
AJ is observant.
AJ is sensitive.
AJ is compassionate.
AJ rides his bike in circles through our house.
AJ has 4 siblings.
AJ has a favorite toy named Woody the Cowboy.
AJ has a "secret lab" located in his room.
AJ also has Down syndrome.

AJ wants to be loved, included and accomplished, just like our other children.  We see ALL of his potential.
We also see it in every child we meet who has Down syndrome.  First, they are children. Second, they have Down syndrome.  We look at "Janie" and want to know...

Is she observant?
Is she sensitive?
Does she have a favorite toy?
Is she compassionate?
When will she learn to ride a bike?

She needs a mama and a daddy 
who will care about these things in her life.

Tuesday, July 15, 2014

We have a new fundraiser!  
It is an online party by a very sweet friend who JUST completed her adoption.  She is the proud mama of 2 boys and now a sweet little girl from China.  Deb has just completed this journey and it is a great encouragement to me that she wants to help us as we begin.

She is offering 100% of profits toward our adoption!




Monday, July 14, 2014

There are so many things I want to write!  
About our emotions, how we arrived here.  At this place.  Adoption.  
I want to tell you all about the amazingness of children with Down syndrome.  How they so beautifully represent an aspect of God's character that is often overlooked, brushed aside, or seen as unimportant.  How throughout the day, AJ will tell me he loves me no less than 10 times a day.  About how AJ sees things that I fail to see, how he understands things I fail to understand and how he makes me stop sometimes and just listen to exactly what he has to say.

I am sure God is eager for us to do that.  
To stop. To listen.  To be captivated by HIM.


"...if my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land." 2 Chronicles 7:14


"My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me." John 10:27


We are his sheep.  We just have to listen.  
Matt and I are trying to listen.  
I know it doesn't seem like a rational, safe, easy decision. Adoption.  
Huge amounts of paperwork.  
Time commitments.  
Financial Commitments.   
Emotional commitments. 
Life commitments. 
 Yet here we are.  Trying to listen.  
Trying to obey.  I am confidant God is faithful.  
Where he leads, we will go.  



Sunday, July 13, 2014

We have been overwhelmed by kindness!  Wow!  It is amazing to see how many people care for sweet "Janie".  Just today, we have a Family Warrior who will work with us to bring Janie home! 


More tomorrow...


Thursday, July 10, 2014

A Little Girl...

A little girl began calling to our hearts in November.


We supported her through Reece's Rainbow
for Christmas.

We received an ornament with her picture on it.

Then... God began calling us to do more.

We Questioned...
Hesitated...
Prayed...
Investigated...

Then, we acted.

Would you join us?







Wednesday, July 9, 2014

Details...

The plight of international orphans who have special needs

 is starkly different from what we know in the states. 


Some children don't live past the orphange.  

Some children live out the rest of their lives in a mental institution.

Some children find families.

Down syndrome has been an instrumental blessing.  
I can't imagine what life would be like without AJ.

To think of him, having to spend one second of his life 
without a mama and a daddy 
simply because of Down syndrome 
is heart breaking.

So, now that we know... how do we respond?


God lays things before us for many reasons.

Sometimes so we can pray.
Sometimes so we can ask.
Sometimes so we can help.
Sometimes we can give.
Sometimes so we can do.
Sometimes so we can act.

After much praying, asking, helping, and giving
it is time for us to act.

So... what is involved?

Quite a LOT

Already, we have...
  1. Submitted our life history... on paper
  2. Been fingerprinted
  3. Completed our background check
  4. Committed financially
  5. Completed 60+ pages of paperwork
  6. Finished our physicals
  7. Completed our Home Study
  8. Obtained letters of reference
  9. Opened our hearts to possible pain and disappointment
  10. Started fundraising
Still to go...
  1. Approval from customs (wait time up to 90 days) + Payment
  2. Submission of the dossier - which goes overseas (wait time 1-3 months) + Payment
  3. 1st trip (week long) + payment
  4. Submission of approval to adopt + payment (wait time 4-6 months)
  5. 2nd Trip (3 weeks long) + payment
  6. Home...hopefully before her 3rd birthday!










Monday, July 7, 2014

So it begins...

The story of redemption is powerful. 

One that speaks to the heart of all men 

and begs the question, “why me?” 

Yet in the life and very death of Jesus Christ

 – we see the act of redemption, 

reaching out to the poor and desperate,

 seeking those who needed to be found,

 healing those who were sick, sinful, and hopelessly lost. 


Ultimately Christ gave the ultimate gift,

 His very life, to redeem all people from sin and He continues to give the gift of eternal life to all who believe.



The theme of redemption echoes in our very souls, moving us forward to show the love of God to others

 – just as Jesus did for us.


 In Hebrews we are commanded, 

“And do not neglect doing good and sharing, 

for with such sacrifices God is pleased.” 

Hebrews 13:16.


It is with this in mind, that we have begun a new journey that God has laid before us.

It will be a long road, with possible disappointment and frustration, 

but overflowing with blessing beyond measure 

and the fulfillment that comes when obedient to God’s leading. 



Adoption.


A little girl has been calling to our hearts, “come, take me home.” 



She is an orphan. 



She has been waiting her entire life for her very own family.


She has Down syndrome 

and cataracts and needs a family who will love her, 

support her, and help her reach her full potential.

God has uniquely equipped us to understand 

the needs of children with Down syndrome, 

by giving us AJ, who has Down syndrome.


We are surrounded by an amazing network of family, friends, church members, doctors and educators who share the same passion for helping those in need. 


We have been uniquely prepared to welcome another child into their home,
 because we have 5 children of our own and 
have experienced a myriad of trials and tribulations .

We are anxious to meet our new daughter and covet your prayers, words of encouragement and partnership with us on this new journey.

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